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Our Mission

At Select Connections, we empower individuals in mid to later life to navigate dating over 50, overcome stigma, and find love and companionship. We offer a unique, all-inclusive, and discreet service to support our clients in building sustainable, fulfilling relationships.

Our Values

  • Empowerment: Helping you take control of your dating life and make informed choices.

  • Inclusiveness: Welcoming a diverse clientele with openness and respect.

  • Discretion: Upholding strict standards of privacy and confidentiality.

  • Support: Providing unwavering guidance throughout your dating journey.

  • Effectiveness: Ensuring you date effectively for lasting, meaningful relationships.

  • Fulfillment: Bringing happiness by assisting in building rewarding relationships.

  • Integrity: Conducting business with honesty and transparency.

  • Compassion: Approaching clients with empathy and understanding.

  • Personal Growth: Encouraging self-discovery to empower your best self.

  • Continuous Improvement: Constantly refining our services to better meet your needs.

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At Select Connections, we embark on a personal journey with each client, getting to know you deeply to understand your desires and aspirations.

  • Hands-On Service: Beyond introductions, we help manage expectations and enhance your dating experience.

  • Personalised Strategies: Identifying past challenges and developing strategies for success.

  • Overcoming Obstacles: Assisting clients in overcoming dating obstacles, such as managing unachievable expectations that may have led to loneliness and prolonged singlehood.

  • Exclusive Network: Our confidential network includes identity-checked singles seeking meaningful connections.

  • Experienced Team: Led by Jacqui, 59, and Melinda, 49, both divorced, who understand the unique needs of mid-life and later-in-life dating.


Our team of male and female coaches has personally navigated divorce, separation, or loss.

Our Commitment

We provide guidance and support every step of the way to help you find fulfilling and lasting relationships.


The Process

At Select Connections, we understand that every individual's dating journey is unique.


Our personalised service reflects your dating aspirations, setting us apart from any online dating experience you may have encountered.

Here’s what you can expect from our supportive process:


Initial Contact:

  • Begin with a free, no-obligation discovery call to discuss our process, support, and address any questions.

  • If you decide to proceed, we’ll arrange an in-depth consultation to understand your interests, values, and relationship aspirations.

Coaching Session

  • While your matchmaker searches for potential matches, you'll have a session with our accredited dating coach.

  • This session addresses your dating and relationship experiences, offering support throughout your journey.

Profile Enhancement

  • If needed, we'll arrange a photoshoot and create a professional profile showcasing your best qualities.


  • Your matchmaker meticulously searches for potential matches based on shared values and aspirations.

  • We present profiles for your consideration while keeping your information confidential.


  • If both you and your match are interested, we facilitate contact to arrange a suitable meeting.

  • Your coach and matchmaker are available to address pre-date nerves and offer safety tips.

Post-Date Evaluation

  • After your date, your matchmaker follows up to discuss how it went and identify any additional needs.

  • Honest feedback helps us refine future matches if necessary.

Our Commitment

At Select Connections, we’re with you every step of the way, offering personalised and supportive guidance to help you find your perfect match and build meaningful, sustainable relationships.

When I approached Select Connections, I had been single for two and a half years and had not attempted online dating. I had heard so many conflicting stories about it, and at 65 years old, I decided that I would try and meet a lady by going out to places where I might bump into someone, strike up a conversation and take it from there!

To cut a very long story short – before the pandemic, this approach did not work. I have no idea where ladies in their 60s go-to for entertainment or socialising, but it certainly was not where I was. I failed to engage with literally any female company, and those I did were not trusting of a gentleman on his own trying to have a conversation with them – and then the pandemic arrived and that put paid to that.
When I looked at the membership fees, I thought it was roughly the cost of a week away on holiday, and I did not want to go on holiday alone.
At least if all went well by the end of the process, I would have what I so greatly desired, someone to spend the next however many years enjoying the nice things in life with and not feeling so lonely.

I am now on my third date. We have been dating now for just over two months. It is going really well, and it is like we have known each other for much longer than we have. Now we can book a holiday for TWO.

My first two dates were attractive ladies, but not the right ones for me. I felt that they were what I had to do to get to where I am now - in the process, you find out things about yourself that you either did not know or totally forgot about
Jacqui worked very hard with me after each date to identify the reasons for it not being the right person, and she used this information to search for a more suitable person – ultimately the right one.

Brian 65 Haslemere 

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